Section 5
Contentment with What Happens explained simply
Discourses of Epictetus by Epictetus
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OF CONTENTMENT.—With respect to gods, there are some who say that a divine being does not exist; others say that it exists, but is inactive and careless, and takes no forethought about anything; a third class say that such a being exists and exercises forethought, but only about great things and heavenly things, and...
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OF CONTENTMENT.—With respect to gods, there are some who say that a
divine being does not exist; others say that it exists, but is inactive
and careless, and takes no forethought about anything; a third class
say that such a being exists and exercises forethought, but only about
great things and heavenly things, and about nothing on the earth; a
fourth class say that a divine being exercises forethought both about
things on the earth and heavenly things, but in a general way only, and
not about things severally. There is a fifth class to whom Ulysses and
Socrates belong, who say:
I move not without thy knowledge.—Iliad, x., 278.
Before all other things then it is necessary to inquire about each of
these opinions, whether it is affirmed truly or not truly. For if there
are no gods, how is it our proper end to follow them? And if they
exist, but take no care of anything, in this case also how will it be
right to follow them? But if indeed they do exist and look after
things, still if there is nothing communicated from them to men, nor in
fact to myself, how even so is it right (to follow them)? The wise and
good man then, after considering all these things, submits his own mind
to him who administers the whole, as good citizens do to the law of the
state. He who is receiving instruction ought to come to be instructed
with this intention, How shall I follow the gods in all things, how
shall I be contented with the divine administration, and how can I
become free? For he is free to whom everything happens according to his
will, and whom no man can hinder. What then, is freedom madness?
Certainly not; for madness and freedom do not consist. But, you say, I
would have everything result just as I like, and in whatever way I
like. You are mad, you are beside yourself. Do you not know that
freedom is a noble and valuable thing? But for me inconsiderately to
wish for things to happen as I inconsiderately like, this appears to be
not only not noble, but even most base. For how do we proceed in the
matter of writing? Do I wish to write the name of Dion as I choose? No,
but I am taught to choose to write it as it ought to be written. And
how with respect to music? In the same manner. And what universally in
every art or science? Just the same. If it were not so, it would be of
no value to know anything, if knowledge were adapted to every man's
whim. Is it then in this alone, in this which is the greatest and the
chief thing, I mean freedom, that I am permitted to will
inconsiderately? By no means; but to be instructed is this, to learn to
wish that everything may happen as it does. And how do things happen?
As the disposer has disposed them? And he has appointed summer and
winter, and abundance and scarcity, and virtue and vice, and all such
opposites for the harmony of the whole; and to each of us he has given
a body, and parts of the body, and possessions, and companions.
What then remains, or what method is discovered of holding commerce
with them? Is there such a method by which they shall do what seems fit
to them, and we not the less shall be in a mood which is conformable to
nature? But you are unwilling to endure, and are discontented; and if
you are alone, you call it solitude; and if you are with men, you call
them knaves and robbers; and you find fault with your own parents and
children, and brothers and neighbors. But you ought when you are alone
to call this condition by the name of tranquillity and freedom, and to
think yourself like to the gods; and when you are with many, you ought
not to call it crowd, nor trouble, nor uneasiness, but festival and
assembly, and so accept all contentedly.
What then is the punishment of those who do not accept? It is to be
what they are. Is any person dissatisfied with being alone? Let him be
alone. Is a man dissatisfied with his parents? Let him be a bad son,
and lament. Is he dissatisfied with his children? Let him be a bad
father. Cast him into prison. What prison? Where he is already, for he
is there against his will; and where a man is against his will, there
he is in prison. So Socrates was not in prison, for he was there
willingly. Must my leg then be lamed? Wretch, do you then on account of
one poor leg find fault with the world? Will you not willingly
surrender it for the whole? Will you not withdraw from it? Will you not
gladly part with it to him who gave it? And will you be vexed and
discontented with the things established by Zeus, which he, with the
Moirae (fates) who were present and spinning the thread of your
generation, defined and put in order? Know you not how small a part you
are compared with the whole. I mean with respect to the body, for as to
intelligence you are not inferior to the gods nor less; for the
magnitude of intelligence is not measured by length nor yet by height,
but by thoughts.
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Simple English explanation
Contentment does not mean laziness. It means meeting events with a trained mind, doing your part, and not demanding that the world obey your wishes.
1-minute summary
This section teaches acceptance without passivity. The Stoic person acts where action is theirs, but does not become miserable because events unfold differently.
Key takeaways
- Contentment is trained acceptance.
- Do your part without demanding control over outcomes.
- Complaining often comes from false ownership.
- Peace grows when desire fits reality.
Modern example
A traveler plans carefully, but when weather delays the flight, they adjust calmly instead of treating the delay as a personal insult.
For kids
Try your best, but do not get angry just because everything does not go your way.