Section 79
Chapter 79 explained simply
Tao Te Ching by Laozi
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1. When a reconciliation is effected (between two parties) after a great animosity, there is sure to be a grudge remaining (in the mind of the one who was wrong). And how can this be beneficial (to the other)? 2. Therefore (to guard against this), the sage keeps the left-hand portion of the record…
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79. 1. When a reconciliation is effected (between two parties) after a
great animosity, there is sure to be a grudge remaining (in the mind
of the one who was wrong). And how can this be beneficial (to the
other)?
2. Therefore (to guard against this), the sage keeps the left-hand
portion of the record of the engagement, and does not insist on the
(speedy) fulfilment of it by the other party. (So), he who has the
attributes (of the Tao) regards (only) the conditions of the
engagement, while he who has not those attributes regards only the
conditions favourable to himself.
3. In the Way of Heaven, there is no partiality of love; it is always
on the side of the good man.
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Simple English explanation
After bitter conflict, resentment remains. Seek repair instead of simply proving who owes what. Winning the ledger may not heal the relationship.
1-minute summary
Chapter 79 explains that after bitter conflict, resentment remains. In practice, seek repair instead of simply proving who owes what. It also warns that winning the ledger may not heal the relationship. The useful lesson is to make the wise move early, while the situation is still small enough to guide.
Key takeaways
- After bitter conflict, resentment remains.
- Seek repair instead of simply proving who owes what.
- Winning the ledger may not heal the relationship.
- Use the idea in one concrete decision today.
Modern example
Two cofounders mediate a split instead of dragging the conflict through public blame.
For kids
Choose the simple, kind, and steady way when things feel confusing.