Section 3

Section 3: Loved Things Are Mortal explained simply

Enchiridion by Epictetus

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In everything which pleases the soul, or supplies a want, or is loved, remember to add this to the (description, notion): What is the nature of each thing, beginning from the smallest?

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III. In everything which pleases the soul, or supplies a want, or is loved, remember to add this to the (description, notion): What is the nature of each thing, beginning from the smallest? If you love an earthen vessel, say it is an earthen vessel which you love; for when it has been broken you will not be disturbed. If you are kissing your child or wife, say that it is a human being whom you are kissing, for when the wife or child dies you will not be disturbed.

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Epictetus uses this section to teach loved things are mortal. The practical point is to train judgment before trying to control the world. Freedom begins when a person can tell the difference between their own choices and everything outside their power.

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Section 3 of the Enchiridion focuses on loved things are mortal. Epictetus wants readers to practice inner discipline, not just admire Stoic ideas. The lesson is to meet daily life with clearer judgment, fewer false demands, and steadier action.

Key takeaways

Practice loved things are mortal in ordinary situations.
Separate your own judgment and action from outside events.
Do not trade character for comfort, status, or approval.
Use philosophy as training, not as decoration.

Modern example

A person facing a stressful message can pause, ask what is actually under their control, and answer from principle instead of panic. That is loved things are mortal in modern life.

For kids

You cannot control everything that happens, but you can practice choosing a calm and honest response.