Section 8
Duties Found in Our Names explained simply
Discourses of Epictetus by Epictetus
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HOW WE MAY DISCOVER THE DUTIES OF LIFE FROM NAMES.—Consider who you are. In the first place, you are a man; and this is one who has nothing superior to the faculty of the will, but all other things subjected to it; and the faculty itself he possesses unenslaved and free from subjection. Consider then from what things...
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HOW WE MAY DISCOVER THE DUTIES OF LIFE FROM NAMES.—Consider who you
are. In the first place, you are a man; and this is one who has nothing
superior to the faculty of the will, but all other things subjected to
it; and the faculty itself he possesses unenslaved and free from
subjection. Consider then from what things you have been separated by
reason. You have been separated from wild beasts; you have been
separated from domestic animals (). Further, you are a
citizen of the world, and a part of it, not one of the subservient
(serving), but one of the principal (ruling) parts, for you are capable
of comprehending the divine administration and of considering the
connection of things. What then does the character of a citizen promise
(profess)? To hold nothing as profitable to himself; to deliberate
about nothing as if he were detached from the community, but to act as
the hand or foot would do, if they had reason and understood the
constitution of nature, for they would never put themselves in motion
nor desire anything otherwise than with reference to the whole.
Therefore, the philosophers say well, that if the good man had
foreknowledge of what would happen, he would co-operate towards his own
sickness and death and mutilation, since he knows that these things are
assigned to him according to the universal arrangement, and that the
whole is superior to the part, and the state to the citizen. But now
because we do not know the future, it is our duty to stick to the
things which are in their nature more suitable for our choice, for we
were made among other things for this.
After this, remember that you are a son. What does this character
promise? To consider that everything which is the son's belongs to the
father, to obey him in all things, never to blame him to another, nor
to say or do anything which does him injury, to yield to him in all
things and give way, co-operating with him as far as you can. After
this know that you are a brother also, and that to this character it is
due to make concessions; to be easily persuaded, to speak good of your
brother, never to claim in opposition to him any of the things which
are independent of the will, but readily to give them up, that you may
have the larger share in what is dependent on the will. For see what a
thing it is, in place of a lettuce, if it should so happen, or a seat,
to gain for yourself goodness of disposition. How great is the
advantage.
Next to this, if you are a senator of any state, remember that you are
a senator; if a youth, that you are a youth; if an old man, that you
are an old man; for each of such names, if it comes to be examined,
marks out the proper duties. But if you go and blame your brother, I
say to you, You have forgotten who you are and what is your name. In
the next place, if you were a smith and made a wrong use of the hammer,
you would have forgotten the smith; and if you have forgotten the
brother and instead of a brother have become an enemy, would you appear
not to have changed one thing for another in that case? And if instead
of a man, who is a tame animal and social, you are become a mischievous
wild beast, treacherous, and biting, have you lost nothing? But (I
suppose) you must lose a bit of money that you may suffer damage? And
does the loss of nothing else do a man damage? If you had lost the art
of grammar or music, would you think the loss of it a damage? and if
you shall lose modesty, moderation () and
gentleness, do you think the loss nothing? And yet the things first
mentioned are lost by some cause external and independent of the will,
and the second by our own fault; and as to the first neither to have
them nor to lose them is shameful; but as to the second, not to have
them and to lose them is shameful and matter of reproach and a
misfortune.
What then? shall I not hurt him who has hurt me? In the first place
consider what hurt () is, and remember what you have
heard from the philosophers. For if the good consists in the will
(purpose, intention, ), and the evil also in the
will, see if what you say is not this: What then, since that man has
hurt himself by doing an unjust act to me, shall I not hurt myself by
doing some unjust act to him? Why do we not imagine to ourselves
(mentally think of) something of this kind? But where there is any
detriment to the body or to our possession, there is harm there; and
where the same thing happens to the faculty of the will, there is (you
suppose) no harm; for he who has been deceived or he who has done an
unjust act neither suffers in the head nor in the eye nor in the hip,
nor does he lose his estate; and we wish for nothing else than
(security to) these things. But whether we shall have the will modest
and faithful or shameless and faithless, we care not the least, except
only in the school so far as a few words are concerned. Therefore our
proficiency is limited to these few words; but beyond them it does not
exist even in the slightest degree.
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Simple English explanation
Epictetus says names like parent, child, citizen, or neighbor show duties. To know what to do, ask what role you are actually standing in.
1-minute summary
This section finds duties in relationships and roles. A person should not act as an isolated self, but as someone connected to parents, friends, city, and humanity.
Key takeaways
- Roles reveal duties.
- Relationships shape what is appropriate.
- Freedom is not selfish isolation.
- Ask what this role requires now.
Modern example
A manager, friend, and parent may face the same conflict differently because each role carries different responsibilities.
For kids
Think about your role: friend, student, sibling, teammate. Each role shows a good way to act.